Shame: Many victims wrongly feel they’re at fault. This shame makes them hesitant to speak out.
Fear of Retribution: There’s often a real fear that the perpetrator might retaliate or harm them further if they speak out.
Fear: Victims often fear disbelief, backlash, judgment, or isolation. They might also worry about police reactions, being ostracized, or how others will treat them after disclosure.
Uncertainty: Some aren’t sure of their rights or if they even faced assault. They may be unaware of options like choosing not to report or declining a rape kit.
Guilt: Replaying the incident might lead victims to wrongly blame themselves. Feeling guilty can deter them from sharing their experience.
Avoidance: Many want to forget and move forward. Discussing or recalling the trauma can be painful, so they avoid it.
Dependence on the Abuser: Some victims may be financially, emotionally, or otherwise dependent on their abuser, making it difficult to come forward.
Cultural or Societal Pressure: In some cultures or communities, speaking out about such incidents might bring ‘disgrace’ or ‘dishonor’, causing victims to remain silent.
Lack of Support: Feeling that there’s no one to turn to or that they’ll lack support can make victims reluctant to come forward.
Normalization: If abuse has been a regular occurrence, a victim might wrongly view it as ‘normal’ or ‘just the way things are.’